Saturday, May 30, 2009

My funny kid!




Tanner is on track break this week. The other day we went shopping to get a few t-shirts and a couple pair of shorts for summer and he chose all his own clothes. It was a little scary for me to let him loose since i am a total control freak about what my kids look like in public. And Erin thanks me for this since she gets all my super awesome hand-me-downs. Anyway he came over to me in the girls department all excited and holding a pair of plaid shorts with a t-shirt that actually matched and two other t-shirts that had these two sayings on them, "Dad thinks he's in charge" and Sorry girls, Mom says no dating." How funny is that?!! Oh and the the plaid shorts and t-shirts were on the manikin.

We went to dinner the other night at Marie Calanders. When we were all finished and walking out to the car I notice Tanner had some french fries in his hand. I thought he just grabbed a few off his plate as we walked away from the table. he stuck them in his mouth and we continued walking to the car, which I had parked really far away for who knows why, and I look back behind me to checked that the kids were still close and Tanner had more french fries in his hand and is eating them. Come to find out he had put all the fries left on his plate in his pockets!!

Yesterday he was in the office and I could here him playing with a bag and couldn't remember shat I had in there is a bag but just let that go because he wasn't in my face telling me for the millionth time he was bored. a few minutes later me emerged in a toilet paper bag, the size you get from Costco. He jumped in it toward me dropped to his knees and tucked his entire body into the bag. I can't believe he can fit.

I love that kid!! He keeps me laughing all the time.

Friday, May 29, 2009

Memorial Day Monday

Tanner playing in the water balloon fight.
Jenessa, Mom (Lori), Cristen
My love, Tanner, and me
A few of the kids after the water balloon fight. Getting them all together proved to be too hard since we only have 6 out of 16 in this picture.

Mike at the grill. We were all starving thank goodness his hamburgers were good.
Madisen after sliding down the slip n slide would stand up and smile at the camera every time.

Memorial Day was fun. Mom and Mike decided to have a BBQ in their backyard. They bought a three lane slip n slide which was a huge hit. The kids played on that for 3 hours when it got a hole in it. Between the slip n slide and the spa the kids stayed wet and cool. Earlier in the day Mike, Mom and Hailey spent an hour filling water balloons for a water balloon that lasted about 7 minutes. Only two injuries occurred and all had a blast. At the end of the day the kids were happy and the adults were ready for some quiet time.  If you want to see all the photos you can see them at our family website  http://web.me.com/justind36/Site/Welcome.html

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Thanks for Mom





I grew up with the most amazing mother in the world. Now many of you are probably thinking that your mom was pretty great and we all feel like our own mother's are the best but mine really is the most amazing!! If there was a contest for the most awesome mom in the world mine would win hands down. I'll list just a few reason's why...
1. She survived raising 4 children on her own after a tragic car accident sent her husband and son to heaven.
2. My baby brother, who is probably mad I just called him baby, had a cyst on his brain about the size of my fist. He was diagnosed at the age 9 or 10 and had 15 surgeries over the course of 9 years on his brain. The closest doctor qualified to treat him was in Salt Lake City, we lived in Las Vegas.
3. She was always there. If we had a play, concert, ball game, whatever. She was there. 
4. She worked full time and still managed to do all the mom stuff. Grocery shopping, homework, laundry on and on. And she managed all the Dad stuff too.
5. She answered any and all questions we asked her with complete honesty. Even the inappropriate ones asked in very public places. (Pea can explain that one)
6. If we needed to talk about anything we just had to go sit on her bed and wait for her there. It didn't matter what time it was or what we wanted to talk about her bed was as good as any shrinks couch. I shared a room with her for a while and on many occations was shooed out when a sibling need her.
7. She had a testimony of the gospel and shared it with us regularly. 
8. Friends were always welcome. We even had a few strays stay with us. If a friend had a fight with their parents and needed cooling off she would phone the parents and tell them their child was safe and welcome to stay until morning.
9. She had wore out scriptures. And has since bought new ones. The worn ones are in my sons room. I catch him reading them on almost a daily basis.
10. She helps me remember my Dad and older brother who are now my special angels. At only five years old when they died I have very few memories of them but she helps to keep them fresh and shares new stories with me whenever she thinks I need one.

I am happy! For real HAPPY! Life isn't always peaches and cream but because of her example I push through the hard days and bask in the glory of the great days. This weekend has been great. The kids are getting along, the house got clean, we have great friends and family. This week end is always hard for me. It surprises me every year how hard it is still. It will be 24 years since we got that terrible knock at the door telling us that there had been an accident. My heart still feels heavy thinking about that day. How weird it was to have everyone around the house crying. Strangers coming and going. Feeling very small and somewhat lost without Michael their to help me understand what was happening. But that day also changed my relationship with my mom. We were a team now. All we had was each other. That was the gift that the Lord left the day he called Dad and Michael home. So I guess all I want to really say is thank you Mom for teaching me all I need to know to be half the mom you are. Be grateful for you blessings and count them everyday. Even if it is just a bowl of ice cream after you put the kids to bed. 

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

New Music


So I got a call from my mom yesterday and she said, "you have to change the music on your blog." At first I thought what is wrong with the music on my blog? I choose good clean music and always have. However, it turns our that she listens to the music while at work. So, Mom, if there is something you don't like let me know and will change it for your listening pleasure!!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Easter Weekend


Easter egg hunt at Aunt Crista's


Coloring eggs
That Easter Bunny must be pretty tall to hide all these eggs up high

In their Sunday best they look like little angels
I don't know what happened with the weird circle of light around Tanner's head. I will have to redo his pictures next Sunday and pretend they are from Easter.
Of course she is striking a pose. Madisen becomes such a ham as soon as the camera is on her!

Well as with every holiday we were busy this weekend. Saturday we went to our ward breakfast at 8am. I now most of you are thinking 'wow 8am for the ward breakfast. I am surprised you even went.' To be completely honest I am way to antisocial to go at all no matter what the time but being in the primary presidency and helping organize the Easter egg hunt for our quarterly activity obligated me to attend. The kids had a blast making their little bags and socializing with their classmates outside of sharing/singing time. 
Next on the list was to get the rest of what we need to make spinach dip and cook the ham to take to the family Easter dinner. We went to Crista's house where we ate delicious food and the kids played outside for hours and had another egg hunt. 
We came home and it was time to color our eggs for the Easter bunny to hide. Tanner had a Star Wars Clone Wars kit while Madisen got the glitter kit. They were so fun this year. We didn't need to help them every step of the way but instead got to sit back and let them do their thing. Tanner had an egg that looked like plant earth and Madisen was thrilled with the glitter.
Finally it was time for bed considering I had been going at full speed since 5:45 in the morning.

Sunday morning brought Tanner into our room at 6am and i was able to convince him to let Madisen sleep until 7am so that she wouldn't be too grumpy the rest of the day. He woke her the second the clock changed to 7 and we went down stairs to see if the Easter bunny had come. They hunted for eggs and sorted through their baskets discovering the "potty putty", Nintendo DS games and sour watermelon candies. We ate pancakes for breakfast and got ready for church. Primary was great! My kids came home so excited to teach me about the resurrection and how much Jesus loves us. Madisen told me the Easter story using the handout she made in class and Tanner was very touched by the movie we watched in sharing time. That afternoon we went to my Mom's for dinner with Cristen and Bobby and their boys where, yep you guessed it, they had another Easter egg hunt. This one I think was their favorite because all their eggs were filled with money!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Terezin- day three in Prague

I haven't yet talked about day three in Prague because it was a very emotional and hard day. We took a bus about a hour to the town of Terezin known also as the Jewish Ghetto. The fortress, built in the 1780's was designed to protect the access routes used by enemy troop to penetrate into Bohemia's hinterland during the Prussian-Austrian wars in the 18th century. In the early 19th century it's Small Fortress served as a prison not only for army offenders but also for political prisoners of the Habsburg monarchy. 
Terezin earned it's worldwide notoriety in recent times when the Czech lands were occupied by Nazi Germany. The fortress was at that time set up as a huge place for persecution of the Jews. The Prague Gestapo Police Prison was set up in the Small Fortress and the Main Fortress the town of Terezin it's self became a Ghetto, a concentration camp for Jews. This was originally intended to be a transit camp for Jews but became like all other camps an execution spot. The town and it's original population were forced out as Nazi Germany took of the entire town. The Nazi's used Terezin in a propaganda campaign and showed Terezin as a "self -administered Jewish settlement territory" Some 14,000 men, women and children from Czech lands, Germany, Austria, the Netherlands, Denmark, Slovakia and Hungary were deported to Terezin. In the final days of the war another 15,000 prisoners, mostly seriously ill or on the verge of total exhaustion arrived in Terezin from the concentration camps in Poland and Germany that had been vacated before the advancing front could save them. Some were already dead and the mass majority of them were executed shortly after arriving there, either at Terezin or after being shipped again to other camps near by. 
Terezin was not only a place of untold hardship and suffering but also a witness of enormous courage, devotion and never-ending struggle to save those doomed as victims of the Nazi genocide. Less than 4,000 of the 87,000 inmates who left the camp in "Eastern" transports survived. The victims also included children who left behind drawing that have since epitomized to the whole world the heinous nature of the "final solution", constituting a lasting memento to the post war generations.
This is a summary of the pamphlet from the Terezin Memorial.
As we walked from the bus to the fortress, or concentration camp, we first came to this massive burial site. More that 10,000 people are buried here. Their bodies were transported here from other mass graves around Terezin and given the proper ceremony and burial they deserved.  

This is a "cell" that would hold up to around 30 people at one time. This is a picture of the entire room. It was bitter cold in the winters and blister hot in the summers. They had no heaters in these rooms, although we did see a few in bigger rooms. But even then it was a single, tiny wood burning heater for a 100ft by 100ft room. After leaving here I don't think I complained once more about being cold.
Here they would stuff as many Jews as would fit in this room. They would sleep on all four levels of this bunk bed. About 6-7 deep and lying head to toe. These "beds" lined all three walls with a single "bathroom" and a single tiny heater. A few of the rooms had table lined up down the middle of the room.  
The white structure above the doorway is the guard tower. On the right side of the courtyard are the small cells that are pictured above that held about 30 people and on the left are the solitary cells. The solitary cells had no windows and no toilet. 
This is the execution courtyard. After being led down a long tunnel they would end up here where they would line them up on the wooded platform and shoot them. They would then take them to the crematorium in mass numbers, assign them a number and one by one cremate them. The only good thing I can say is that they did put their remains in a urn which you can find at the memorial sights throughout the city and even at the fortress itself. 
Here we are in the tunnel that led to the execution sight.
This was the "hospital." In the final days of the war a typhoid epidemic broke out which led to the death of many of the inmates who hadn't been shipped off to Auschwitz or other near by camps. 
Here is where the Jews were told to hang their clothes for sterilization. Needless to say they never got them back. They were given a prison uniform at that time.
These are the train tracks the prisoners were forced to build. They lead to Auschwitz. 

Being there made me so grateful that I live in a free country and get to worship who, what and when I please. From the moment I stepped off the bus there was a feeling of reverence in Terezin. I was walking on what is now sacred ground for those who had loved ones who were murdered at the hands of the Nazi's. I count my blessings everyday that I have a testimony of the gospel. I would hate to be standing in front of God and Jesus Christ having done what was done to hundreds of thousands of His children. Of everything we saw and did on this trip this day will stay with me forever!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Madisen cracks me up!

Lately Madisen has been talking more than usual which means that she basically never stops talking. She jumps from one thought to the other with no connection between the last and current thought. This makes for very interesting conversation especially when I am not completely listening to her. Here are a few things she has said lately...

I got pulled over for speeding the other day while coming home from soccer and while we were waiting for the officer to write up the ticket she was silent. WEIRD! I looked at her in the rearview and saw tears running down her cheeks. I turned around and asked why she was crying and she said, "i don't know how to drive a car and i don't even know the way to our home, so with you going to jail how do I get home? Do I just have to stay in the car?"

This one came out while driving in the car so I wasn't really listening to what she was saying before this comment but I do know it had nothing to do with our country or politics at all.
Madi-"Mom. that Obama dude who is like the president. Well he has a black face." 
 Mom-"Yep he does. Tanner turn around in your seat!"
Madi- "Hum...well Miss Lydia and Miss Evelyn have brown faces"
Mom- "Tanner if I tell you again how to sit in the car I swear... that's right Madisen. "
Madi-"Mom Tanner is turned around in his seat and is putting his cream face in my cream face."
Mom-"Tanner!!!..."
Tanner-"I know your swear.. whatever that means."
 Laughter erupts from both the kids

Kids say the funniest things!!